tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post7186229685923776070..comments2024-02-19T00:32:37.151-08:00Comments on Views From My Kitchen Sink: I gave this awayPamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00941799264944510946noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-26995019163995807682010-03-02T05:36:13.323-08:002010-03-02T05:36:13.323-08:00Hmmmm, are you SURE you want a dog? I would not ge...Hmmmm, are you SURE you want a dog? I would not get a puppy until all of your kids are at least 4! That's what we did, but then I was thinking, am i crazy? I just got through the baby/toddler years & here we go again! Our dog came as a gift through good friends (she was a pup of their dog, the father) with AKC credentials. After shots, install of wireless fence, training, food, boarding (during vacations) etc. I can also say it is a big financial commitment~which wasn't a problem for us, but I wondered what we would have done if we didn't have the $ ? I also spent a tremendous amount of time walking her around our property for 20 min a day for a year. Yes, after 3 1/2 years I am glad that we have our black lab as she waits with the kids at the bus stop & keeps the deer at bay...it is a big commitment, so think about it & take your time!Cathy M~(checkitoff)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03470783605176479831noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-58014389536013534472010-02-28T20:46:23.258-08:002010-02-28T20:46:23.258-08:00I too gave our dog away. It was after my third wa...I too gave our dog away. It was after my third was born. The dog had several skin allergies and always had a cone on. I had to keep him in the same room or else I knew he was trying to get at his patches. It was terrible. I started to resent all the time he took to care for. He is now happily retired with a lovely old couple who dote on him. And honestly the kids didn't seem to be all that choked about it. It was the best decision for both of us. I've always felt so guilty about it, I'm glad you wrote this post.<br />Take care,<br />DanaDana @ Bungalow'56https://www.blogger.com/profile/14925373078487563897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-2750192949399019102010-02-26T06:14:28.421-08:002010-02-26T06:14:28.421-08:00You family is beautiful! And the puppy is too cute...You family is beautiful! And the puppy is too cute.<br />My Mom and Dad have a puppy who is 7 months now and about 55 pounds so you can imagine how rough and strong he is for an almost 4 year old little girl. Even me. I know that had to be hard for your family. <br /><br />Thanks for the sweet comment.Sixty-Fifth Avenuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10741086163384325244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-7484444112971576632010-02-26T06:09:06.058-08:002010-02-26T06:09:06.058-08:00Oh yes, I can relate. I am not a dog person either...Oh yes, I can relate. I am not a dog person either. We got one 2 years ago...a moment of "now or never" when I was pregnant with my 5th. Everyone thought I was crazy. And at times trust me, I regretted it majorly! But after that first 6 months it got easier....it is still a huge responsiblity though. He is a super duper good dog, but it's one more thing to do. I don't think I'd ever do it again...we all love him but this is it. I like the suggestion of getting an older one who is already trained, especially for a bigger more active dog. Ours is a little Malti-Poo...little poops, no shedding, coudn't get his teeth around anything to shred.<br />Don't feel bad...you made the right decision!Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14912466557223829314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-7826028621821630672010-02-25T08:36:02.576-08:002010-02-25T08:36:02.576-08:00I've been a lurker for a while. Found you fro...I've been a lurker for a while. Found you from a comment you wrote on "Clover Lane" a few weeks back.<br /><br />Anyway...<br /><br />Our family was the same way. My husband and I both grew up with dogs and wanted that for our kids, too.<br /><br />We first got an expensive American bulldog puppy. So cute when he was a little, tiny puppy, but that puppy got big in a hurry and chewed and ruined everything in came into contact with. That was so stressful on top of taking care of three little boys. We ended up giving him away.<br /><br />Fast forward a couple of years. We had the "dog itch" again. Instead of getting a puppy, we got a three-year old Cocker Spaniel from our local online classifieds. His previous owners had him since he was a puppy. They had a baby who turned out to be allergic to him and needed to find the dog a good home.<br /><br />Max has ended up being the best dog ever! We get to enjoy all the perks of having a dog, but we didn't have to endure the difficult puppy stage (chewing, potty training, etc.). That part was already done! (http://theskinnerscene.blogspot.com/2008/09/meet-max.html)<br /><br />My suggestion: Get an older dog that's aleady trained!Amandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03099345988893285637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-10220731458144104722010-02-25T04:36:26.765-08:002010-02-25T04:36:26.765-08:00oh friend....as someone who knew Fenway, i definit...oh friend....as someone who knew Fenway, i definitely don't think it was the right time. maybe an older golden would be better. you know that we love having a dog at our house, but Sophie is 11 now and really easy. i do think that kids need a dog though, it is good for them:)<br />hugs, rene'Rene'https://www.blogger.com/profile/03974817828630830646noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1669400531010928919.post-27681533083291053002010-02-25T04:33:43.244-08:002010-02-25T04:33:43.244-08:00This is EXACTLY how I feel about dogs. But Ben rea...This is EXACTLY how I feel about dogs. But Ben really wanted one, so I gave in. We have had "success" with a boxer rescue dog. They come as adults, they are already past the puppy stage, and they come basically trained. But she's still a dog, and she still gets out and runs around the neighborhood, and she still occasionally pees on the carpet, and Ben still forgets to walk her so she tears up a spot in the garden. It's like having eight kids instead of five.<br />Don't you just need another baby instead? :)jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01313127576303289593noreply@blogger.com